| It was not me on the spot but
Lesley, who in reality had been doing very little whilst I was trannying . When
asked, she told us that she was happy for me to do what I do, but she was confused
about what she should be doing with her life because she had expected to doing
everything with me, her partner. We agreed that she should feel free to make a
life of her own exploring her own interests and that time when I was "not
available" was valuable time to make use of and enjoy.
Our counselling set us both free.
I went on to develop this book and all the other WayOut activities, whilst also
developing myself and experiencing many amazing life adventures. Lesley changed
her job and has subsequently built her own business. During 97 after five years
hard work she completed a Bachelor of Science degree in psychology through the
Open University.
Our relationship and our lifestyle
have never been better and her understanding of me is somewhat unique. One of
the reasons for this, is that the course Lesley took, culminated in her final
year with a study of "Gender as an aspect of social psychology".
One evening whilst studying she
called out to me "you bloody trannies are everywhere".
She showed me the page she was reading in her OU study book which had a picture
of Tranny Guide co-founder Caroline. It was then that we realised how much life
had taken us both by the hand and lead us through our different experiences
to come closer together than ever, with a much better and clearer understanding
of ourselves, life itself and one of it’s very many facets - cross-dressing.
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