Peter White a VERY good friend of Ron Stormes
Peter, sadly passed away 4th Dec 2011
Born 9th May 1933, Peter is a
perfect gentleman, self proclaimed eccentric, dry wit and terrific
mimic, who brought the grace of a previous age to the transgender scene.
Peter's empathy, experience and love for
the TG scene developed over a lifetime of platonic relationships with TG friends
from all corners of the world.
Originally
from Cornwall, Peter was expected at a young age to be a vet, train driver, or
actor. It was the last of these paths that brought him at the age of 16 to a London
audition theatre where he was first to meet a very young Ron Storme.
Ron
was with close friend Paul La Dare. Both were female impersonators and show girl
dancers. The young Peter was fascinated by these two beautiful 'girls' and life
long friendships were cemented, as they waited for their respective auditions.
Peter was up for cabin boy in the film Treasure Island, (he didn't get the part).
In
the early 50s Ron found the UK was not ready for openly gay, openly effeminate,
(now understood to be transgendered) performers. Others like Danny La Rue found
fame in music hall and review, as entertainers working within the confines of
the straight entertainment industry. Ron however had to leave the UK to find fame
and a good living in Europe and elsewhere around the world where colleagues like
Coccinele from France were revered as celebrities, not hounded as "poofs".
Peter
went on to enjoy a fulfilling, exciting and varied life including time in the
air force both in the UK and the USA. His great love of boats led him to build
a boat business in France. He is a Master shipwright, engineer and skipper.
Throughout
the years that passed Peter and Ron maintained a close relationship by letter,
and when Ron settled in Putney with his dear partner George, Peter would visit,
staying with a relation nearby in Richmond. Ron would particularly enjoy trips
to restaurants in Peters Jaguar car. Though Peter says Ron never travelled out
as far as the M25.
Ron's
infamous house parties in Putney led on to the Porchester Hall Balls in Queensway,
and later monthly nights at Tudor Lodge in Bow. When ever Peter's UK visits coincided
with these events he would be there in the background. In 1986 as Ron helped judge
'Night of a 1000 Frocks', Peter was there at the edge of the stage. Many thought
of Ron and Peter as sister and brother. Ron would refer to Peter as "My Peter".
Many thought that Peter was therefore Peter Storme.
Their
lives intertwined until Peter retired and settled in Sandy in Bedfordshire. Ron
had lost his beloved George and was running bi-weekly nights at Stepney's. Peter
would join Ron midweek to work on PR and drive him to the club helping in the
background.
At
this time Stepney's owners pressured Ron to take the club weekly. Rather than
lose the venue, Ron reluctantly agreed and turned to Peter to take a more active
role. Ron was already ill though few knew. Some of the clubs busiest nights followed
as the TG scene responded to the weekly opportunity.
Ron's
death hit Peter hard, and to see Stepney's owners dismiss everybody that had worked
with Ron, was a double blow. Ron had asked Peter to keep the club going for the
loyal clientele, but the means was not in his hands to do so.
He
watched the roller coaster ride as Stepney's brought in various hosts and was
dismayed to see it come to an end.
Peter's
support was instrumental in securing the club for the TG community for those last
few years from when Ron was asked to go weekly - and now it was shut.
Peter approached Vicky Lee and together they worked on these web pages that Vicky pledged would endure as long as she could.
Peter's every waking thought after Ron's death was to ensure that the struggle of the early
transgender pioneers is never forgotten.
On that last night at Ron Storme's at Stepney Peter took tributes in a small green book. Why
not see some of the tributes friends and admirers of Ron Storme have left in the
Ron Storme Tribute Book.
Your Tributes to Ron collected by Peter White.
**These are tributes and pictures sent to Peter and Vicky Lee
Now it is time to collect tributes to Peter and I am honoured to do so
Peter was such a gent and despite his physical traumas always cracked
his jokes and kept me laughing - I will miss such a rare man and I promise
to keep Ron Storme's name alive as he always did R.I.P Peter
**Vicky Lee
Michelle Edwards
It is my sad duty to inform you that Peter (Ron Storme) White
passed away this morning (Sunday 4th December) just after three o'clock.
I was by his side holding his hand.
Peter will be remembered for his larger than life persona and for his unbridled desire to keep alive the memory or Ron Storme.
Although over the past two years he has been very ill after an operation
he remained the same wonderful man with a big heart.
It has been a great pleasure to have known and loved him.
Rest in Peace Peter
Jean Winchester
Peter will be greatly missed. Rest In Peace, my old friend.XXXXX
Jamie Mckenna OMG!
Peter was such a lovely kind hearted man, he will be missed RIP X
Angelica Sotto Smith
rest in peace Peter... we will miss you xxx
Pearl E Monsoon
Peter you will be missed by many my darlin,but we will all meet up again one day on the other side.a much loved friend R.I.P. sis x
Glen Harris
R.I.P x
Your Tributes to Ron Storme and collected by Peter White.
**These are tributes and pictures sent to Peter and Vicky Lee
Ron
Storme By Richard Smith
**News Article Saturday December 2nd,
2000 The Guardian
A
tribute to Ron Storme by Vicky Lee.
**First
written in November 2000 with help and pictures from Peter White
**First published in the 9th edition of The Tranny Guide
Ron Storme By Georgina
** A fabulous
collection of lost pictures from Georgina
discovered after printing old negativs show Ron and the parties at
Bow circa 1990s
Peter White By Vicky Lee
** The ultimate male admirers story with your tributes
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