These
pages will form a lasting, (and growing), tribute to a Transgender Pioneer who
did so much for thousands of people who in those early days had no other outlet
to express themselves in the light hearted, don't take yourself too seriously,
way that Ron engendered.
A tribute to Ron Storme by Vicky Lee.
**First
written in November 2000 with help and pictures from Peter White
**First published
in the 9th edition of The Tranny Guide
Ron Storme bought his house
in Putney the year I was born in 1954. In that house he shared his life, his love
of dressing up and mad parties - with his friend, companion and lover George for
27 years of their 35 year relationship. George was very fond of cats and often
said that when he died he would be reincarnated as a cat. Shortly after George
died (of cancer) in 1981 a large black and white cat arrived on Ron's doorstep
and refused to go away. George 'the cat' outlived Ron who died of cancer on 3rd
October 2000. Ron was 74.
Ron
recognised himself to be gay and effeminate at a very early age. At a time when
such as Danny La Rue was treading the boards, Ron not only surpassed Danny's female
impersonations on stage but also off stage - unheard of at the time in London.
It is hard for most of us to imagine what life was like for effeminate men over
that time span.
Ron
always created a safe place to push the boundaries, at first at his house parties
and later at the Porchester Hall. These occasional balls led to monthly events
in Bow, (before finally becoming the weekly parties at Stepney's).
Every year
for the last nine years I would have a long conversation with Ron. We would discuss
the update of his Tranny Guide listing for the parties that he held.
I
first heard of them (rather indelicately) as 'Ron Storme's Balls' at that time
they were held once a month in Bow at Tudor Lodge. Later when he moved the event
to Stepney's he renamed it 'Club Travestie Extordinare'. However thousands of
trannies just called it 'Ron's'. We always had a warm, conversation. He would
offer me tips about taxi companies and hotels. He would warn me to ignore gossip.
I always had the utmost respect for Ron.
When
he was The Tudor Lodge at Bow Steffan and I would perform for Ron. He would always
come to the dressing room to ooh aah and camp it up. Ron would always pull from
his history some funny story, which though dealing with the inevitable depravities
(as such stories often do), would always be talked of with the utmost politeness
and decorum. (See pics below).
Ron set
a standard for himself, for his event and for the tranny scene over the period
that the scene grew from infancy to maturity. It is said "give me the child
and I will give you the adult". Ron 'brought up' thousands of us.
The WayOut
Club honoured Ron the day after his funeral by dedicating 'The Alternative Miss
London' contest to his name. It is was very appropriate to do so - as the contest,
founded by Steffan in 1993, was an attempt to recreate 'A Night of 1000 Frocks'
held at Leicester Sq's Hippodrome in 1986. Ron was one of the organisers and judges
of the 1986 event and Steffan was the winner of the event. The event changed Steffan's
life forever. Each year that we promote this event it will be Steffan Whitfield's
'Miss Alternative London' (in Memory of Ron Storme). (See pics below).
Ron rarely
travelled outside London. His good friend Peter White told me that "Ron never
saw the M25". Ron never visited The WayOut Club though he was often invited.
I
am sad that Ron did not see what Steffan and I have managed to do. We are proud
to be his offspring and we would have liked his blessing, as we carry on, (in
evolutionary terms), what he started.
Peter
was kind enough to trust some of his favourite pictures of Ron with me for this
article.
But
I feel MOST honoured to be entrusted with something even MORE special and unique.
In
the weeks following Ron's death Peter continued to welcome visitors to the club
at the door of Ron's 'Club Travestie Extordinare'.
He collected in a small
book entitled 'thoughts for the day', comments from hundreds of people who loved
Ron and even some that had JUST missed the opportunity to meet him, but whos lives
were still touched by this special man. Peter has allowed me to share some of
these 'thoughts' with you.
Peter
assures us that everything will be done by those that worked with Ron, to ensure
that his life's work will continue - in his name and in his spirit.
Meanwhile
Stepney's is continuing an event every Saturday and many regulars are determined
not to lose the unique atmosphere, where the clientele maintain an air of glamourous
glee and the naughty mix with the haughty.
If
you have memories or pictures of Ron that you would like to see published here
email them to Peter here at ronstormes.com, by clicking
here